Your New Normal: How Will It Look?
You may have seen them on social media…the memes and articles about how our lives will be forever changed due to Coronavirus. One of those memes, from Brené Brown, recently appeared in my social media feed questioning the whole idea of “normal” and pointing out that “normal” in the current age has had a very low bar. Brené Brown observes…
“We will not go back to normal. Normal never was. Our pre-corona existence was not normal other than we normalized greed, inequity, depletion, extraction, disconnection, confusion, rage, hoarding, hate and lack. We should not long return my friends. We are being given the opportunity to stitch a new garment…one that fits all of humanity and nature.”
Another newsfeed article, along those same lines, caught my attention as well. In his powerful essay for Medium, Writer/Director, Julio Vincent Gambuto implores us to resist the pressure to get back to the numbing consumerism of pre-Corona days, and to “Marie Kondo” our way to more authentic lives. Gambuto observes…
“This is our chance to define a new version of normal, a rare and truly sacred opportunity to get rid of the BS and only bring back what works for us.”
So given that, any way you slice it, life going forward, is going to be different, what does the “new garment” Brené Brown suggests you “stitch” look like? Now that we’re collectively back to square one in so many ways, how can you put Gambuto’s advice to work to start “Marie Kondo-ing” your life to better reflect your true self?
When we stop all the running, consuming, and general noise in our lives, suddenly we can see all the things we’ve been running away from, how much we’ve been over-consuming, and how loudly we’ve been turning up the Spotify in order to avoid facing the aspects of our lives that haven’t been working, ie: the job that’s become toxic, the marriage in need of repair, care and connection with family and friends that’s fallen by the wayside, or perhaps simply the realization that there’s been no time for ourselves in our own lives.
Examining all of this, as well as the very real threat that this pandemic brings, can be scary and incredibly painful. Know, however, that out of the fear and pain can come incredible growth and a new awareness about what’s really important in our lives. Out of the Phoenix-Rising energy can come the motivation to create something far better, not only for us, individually, but for our world as a whole.
The pandemic has shattered “normal” in a way that hasn’t happened in generations. Hitting this worldwide “pause” gifts us with a golden opportunity to turn inward in order to separate the wheat from the chaff, and ask ourselves: What do we value? What do we want our lives and our world to look like going forward? To that end, I wish you a journey that brings clarity, empowerment, and a new grounded-ness as you navigate this historic sea change. Here’s to your good health and safety, dear reader, and here’s to a kinder, gentler, more authentic and equitable “New Normal” for us all.