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Savvy Professional Career Wisdom by Caroline Dowd-Higgins
This is Not the Career I Ordered is read by thousands of careerists around the globe. With savvy tools, inspiration, and resources, this timeless book empowers you to enjoy your career, and love your life!
The Resilience Revolution: Why Women are Redefining Success Beyond the Hustle
The era of the Girlboss hustle is officially over. For decades, women were told that the key to breaking the glass ceiling was simply to work harder, stay later, and say “yes” to every opportunity that crossed their desks. We were sold a version of success that required us to be masters of the universe […]
Beyond the Hustle: How Women Nurture Themselves While Scaling the Ladder
Here’s the truth bomb nobody wants to say out loud, 76% of professional women report experiencing burnout, and that number is up 12% from pre-pandemic levels. We’re not just tired – we’re running on fumes while pretending the tank is full. But here’s where it gets interesting. The most successful women leaders aren’t just crushing […]
Stop Wasting Time on Wellness Programs: Build a Wellbeing Ecosystem That Drives ROI
Let me guess – your company rolled out a wellness program. Maybe you got yoga classes, a meditation app subscription, or those standing desks everyone requested. And yet… burnout is still through the roof, turnover is climbing, and your team looks about as energized as a smartphone at 2% battery. Here’s the truth bomb: “You […]
The Essential Gift of Self Love
It’s the time of year for cards with red hearts, chocolates, and flowers as Valentine’s Day is celebrated in February. It causes anxiety for some who are seeking affection, and bliss for others who are celebrating their love with someone special. This Valentine’s Day I encourage you to see it through a different lens. Celebrate […]
The Power of the Pause: Why a Sabbatical Might Be Your Best Career Move Yet
We’ve all heard the mantras: Keep grinding. Push through. Success requires sacrifice. But here’s the truth nobody wants to admit – sometimes the most powerful career move you can make is to stop. I’m talking about a real pause. A sabbatical. A leave of absence. Time away from the hamster wheel to actually breathe, think, […]
10 Ways to Nurture Yourself at Work Without Feeling Guilty
Let’s get one thing straight: taking care of yourself at work isn’t selfish, it’s self-preservation. With burnout rates climbing and workplace stress becoming the norm rather than the exception, nurturing yourself during the workday isn’t just nice to have. It’s non-negotiable. Yet many feel guilty every time we step away from our desks for five […]
Stop Burning Out Your Best People: 5 Ways to Nurture Yourself (and Your Team) Without Reducing Workload
With burnout on the rise, it’s crucial to act now. Seventy-six percent of employees experience workplace burnout, and the cost of an employee leaving is usually equivalent to one year of their annual salary. You can’t afford to treat a severe injury with a Band-Aid. Throwing more time off at the problem doesn’t work (most […]
How RADICAL CONFIDENCE Can Empower You in 2026
The word “radical” has become a part of the world-of-work lexicon to mean something that is new, beyond the norm, and extraordinary. Perhaps you have heard about Radical Candor or Radical Transparency as workplace concepts meant to provide an environment for developmental growth and building trust. I’m introducing the idea of Radical Confidence to empower […]
Make People Feel at Ease in 30 Seconds: A Guide to Psychological Safety
With burnout rising and only 23% of employees engaged globally (Gallup), you can’t leave psychological safety to chance. Google’s Project Aristotle identifies it as the single biggest driver of team effectiveness, and 70% of high-performing teams share it. The upside? You can change the social temperature of a room in 30 seconds. Psychological safety isn’t […]
How to Support Your Overstressed Team
With burnout on the rise, it’s crucial for leaders to step up their support for employees. Burnout isn’t a new phenomenon; it’s been long-standing, especially with current political and economic uncertainties coupled with anxiety about AI’s impact on jobs. A Gallagher report reveals that two-thirds of leaders express concern over stress and burnout in their […]
My Hell Yes! or Hell No! Approach for 2026
🌟 A new year is a fresh start to set intentions, let go of what’s not serving you well, and focus on the clean slate of a new beginning. Some people choose a word to be their guiding thought for the year, others set resolutions and goals. There is no singular way, so honor what […]
Bending Without Breaking: Finding Stability During Hard Seasons
Life can throw numerous challenges our way—be it personal loss, health issues, or financial instability—and navigating these times can be overwhelming, especially when trying to maintain balance between professional obligations and personal well-being. However, there are practical strategies to help you set boundaries and care for yourself during difficult periods. Here’s how to maintain stability […]
From Work/Life Balance to Work/Life Integration: The New Normal
The transition to remote and hybrid work has blurred the lines between our professional and personal lives, reigniting discussions about work/life balance. As companies push for employees to return to physical offices, many are experiencing heightened stress and a dwindling sense of balance. It’s becoming evident that the traditional concept of work/life balance — a […]
The Critical Moment for Women in the Workplace: Key Findings from McKinsey’s 2025 Report
The McKinsey/Lean-In 2025 Women in the Workplace Report was just released and Corporate America stands at a crossroads. For the first time in nearly a decade, the momentum toward gender equality in the workplace is stalling—and in some areas, actively retreating. The report reveals troubling trends that demand immediate attention from business leaders. The Warning […]
